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06/15/10

10:20:54 pm Social Media Savvy seminar 1/2 day events (Coquitlam)-tickets on sale now!

Join me and special guest, Keith Keller (coming all the way from Australia for these events!), as we present Social Media Savvy on Sat., Sept. 18th/10. Keith is a Social Media Job Search Specialist, Career Change Coach, Founder of Career Journeys Australia, and Co-Host of the widely acclaimed Career Success Radio.

The morning is for Career Development Practitioners. As Career Development Practitioners it's our job to stay on top of trends in our field and stay ahead of our clients' needs regarding up-to-date strategies. Now, more than ever, the use of social media is quickly becoming the norm for career exploration and job search, as well as for career maintenance, advancement, and business growth in many fields. Whether skeptical or not, we must move forward with technology and demand, by role modeling and sharing knowledge to aid in client self-sufficiency and career success. (All materials...facilitation guide, slides, etc. are provided on a USB...all included in the price!) For more information and registration: http://www.brendablackburn.com/events/smss/index.php

The afternoon is open to the general public. Whether you're looking for a new career, a new job, or new business ventures, you'll want to use up-to-date strategies. Now, more than ever, the use of social media is quickly becoming the norm for career exploration and job search, as well as for career maintenance, advancement, and business growth in many fields. A great deal at only $47 (Early Bird rate!) For more information and registration, see: http://www.brendablackburn.com/events/smss/job-seekers.php

(Limited seating.)

Hope to see you there! :)


01/17/10

01:50:52 pm Unpleasant job tasks – should I learn to overcome or do something different?

This question was posted on CareerSuccessRadio.com's "Career Success Expert Panel" page, along with my response and suggestions for

Question:
Unpleasant job tasks – should I learn to overcome or do something different?
How do you know which unpleasant aspects of a job are difficulties you should learn to overcome, and which are a genuine indication that you should do something different?
– Rosemary WW

Answer:

Hi Rosemary,

All jobs tend to have at least one task that isn’t our favourite, or an area which may be utilizing our weaker abilities.

Consider writing out all the tasks you perform and whether each is pleasant or unpleasant for you. Add them up. If you have more unpleasant ones, that might be the indication you may want to consider something else. If you only a few more difficult aspects, you may want to consider solutions… i.e. ways to improve, communicating with your team and/or boss around strategies.

When we work performing a lot of unenjoyable skills, we can experience “burnout”, so something to pay attention to!

If you want to consider different career options, you might want to do some career self-assessments, which can help to confirm whether you’re on the right track or not. A website I can recommend is: http://www.workshoppersonline.com/assess.htm. There, you’ll find a variety of free assessments including personality types, interests, values, skills, etc.

Hope this helps and best of luck!

Brenda Blackburn
Personal & Professional Development Facilitator
Certified Employment Counsellor
Certified Life SkillsCoach

http://www.brendablackburn.com
http://careercommuniqueradio.ning.com/profile/BrendaBlackburn


01/10/10

05:05:22 pm How can I get past my fear of changing jobs?

Today I called in to my friends Annemarie and Keith at Career Success Radio to respond to this question. (To listen to the show, go to http://www.blogtalkradio.com/careercommunique/2010/01/10/wake-up--explore-your-passion-a-career-success-rad.

This question was on CareerSuccessRadio.com's "Career Success Expert Panel" page, along with my response and suggestions for strategies: http://careersuccessradio.com/2010/01/how-can-i-get-past-my-fear-of-changing-jobs-q1-career/ or click the title of this post.

Question:
How can I get past my fear of changing jobs? I’ve been working in my current role for the last 4 years and just dread Monday morning’s to the point where I am almost making myself physically ill on Sunday nights, knowing I have to go into work the next day. Despite this getting increasingly worse, I just can’t seem to get past my fear that I may end up in another job that I loathe? And, many of my friends and family tell me I’m silly and that I should be thankful I’ve got a job. Particulary with the current job market being so tight. To be honest, I just don’t know how long I continue putting on a happy face at work when inside, I feel like I’m dying — little by little. Do you have any advice?
– Anita L.

My answer:
Hi Anita,
You’re question really pulled at my heartstrings… so many of us can really relate to what you’re going through.

When I hear that your situation is making you physically/literally ill, it causes great concern. Your body is giving you a very strong warning sign and to ignore it is like walking a slippery slope. It sounds like it’s been building for a long time to get to this point and I would encourage you to heed what your body is telling you. Your health and well-being are of critical importance.

Sadly, sometimes the only way we finally take the risks we need to, for our own well-being, is when the fear of staying where we’re at is greater than the fear of moving forward. And in your case, your body may actually force this decision for you.

Regarding being grateful…. agreed… gratitude is important, but don’t be a martyr in the process. Be careful of the “shoulds”: what you think you “should” do, what others say you “should” do, etc. Listen to your body right now, then listen to your intuition. Rationalizing too much is tricky, as it can steer you in an unhealthy decision. I would suggest that your heart and soul know you best. What do they say to do right now?

Some strategies to consider:

* Consider taking a health leave or vacation time from your job, so you can take care of yourself.

* Evaluate what is actually making you sick about your job. Is it the job or tasks themselves, or the environment? Do you need a career change, or a change of workplace?

* If you want a career change, strongly consider a thorough exploration. Know your direction and work on an immediate course of action… a path to take to get you to a healthy place (mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually).

* Take baby steps to make your next move. Ask yourself how you can take small steps NOW to get you to where you want/need to be.

* Practice building your positivity back up. Be confident in yourself, your desires, abilities, strengths, accomplishments, vision and goals. Starting today, work on replacing doubts with affirmations.

I hope this helps Anita. Take care of yourself and remember you are a strong woman. As they say “this too shall pass”.

Brenda Blackburn
Personal & Professional Development Facilitator
Certified Employment Counsellor
Certified Life Skills Coach

http://www.brendablackburn.com
http://careercommuniqueradio.ning.com/profile/BrendaBlackburn


09/15/09

11:09:32 pm My latest radio segment re: Values

I chatted with my good friend, Keith Keller from CareerCommuniqueRadio.com, on Monday (Sept. 14/09) and we taped a segment for an upcoming show on Jan. 31/2010 at 4:00 p.m. (PST). That show's topic will be Staff Retention, and my segment is from the job seekers perspective. I discuss why exploring your values (and personality) is so crucial to a good fit and a win-win situation.

If you'd like to catch a sneak preview of the 12 min. audio clip, you can hear it at: http://www.utterli.com/keithkeller, under the post: BRENDA BLACKBURN (Values).


08/23/09

09:38:16 pm JOB SEARCH 101: Practical Job Search Strategies to "hit the ground running"

Hello everyone!

Below, I've included most of my answers to questions during today's Career Communique Radio show, however, there was a larger interchange of dialogue that you won't want to miss! You can listen to the whole show at: http://tinyurl.com/nkd3rd Another great one and truly fun to be a part of!

'Till next time,
Brenda

P.S I welcome any comments or questions!

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JOB SEARCH 101: Practical Job Search Strategies to 'HIT THE GROUND RUNNING'

Question from Keith:
1.Can you share with listeners your three favourite strategies that you use with jobseekers?

Me:
Absolutely! The three areas that I feel are essential to an effective job search are: Planning, Preparation, and Proactive Participation. And while they may sound simplistic, unfortunately they are not all always carried out! I can give you some clear examples…

#1: Planning: this includes getting focused, targeting your job search strategy, and accessing the hidden job market by developing contact lists. (There's nothing worse for planning then saying "I'll take any job. I'll do anything!", which scatters efforts all over the place!)

# 2: Preparation:
• This includes, and perhaps most importantly, preparing a positive mental attitude, self-esteem and emotions, which may have had a downturn during job loss, transition, and so on. Any negative baggage will follow you through your job search process… whether you know it or not.
• And it includes physical preparation, which includes everything from your appearance, to task oriented things such as: customizing EVERY marketing document for EVERY job (resume, cover letter, references, portfolio, etc.), prioritization of relevant qualifications and achievements on those documents, research companies, positions, industry), as well as practicing interview questions with someone (dare to be videoed to see how you present yourself!). Set up an online presence (free website, social media sites), and so on.

And #3: Proactive Participation:
• The main concentration here is networking….network/network/network! You can conduct information interviews, volunteer, attend relevant networking groups and job fairs--network in person or online. And really concentrate on accessing your hidden job market contacts primarily and the superfluous over-accessed methods, like internet and newpaper ads, secondarily. In other words, the easiest is not always the best OR where employers necessarily prefer to look! Keep an activity and contact log during your job search. Also, follow-up… this is so important! And give thank you cards or emails to not only interviewers, but your references (who are often forgotten) and everyone involved in your job search process. And ENJOY the process… the journey. Have fun with it!

Annemarie:
Could you share with listeners some of the general insights from your work that you feel would apply to all job seekers and the job search the world over?

Me:
In addition to what I’ve mentioned, (the "3 P's"), I’d say I have four general insights to share:
1. Take charge of your career. Know that security is found within." Treat yourself as a business...“ME INC.” Brand yourself. Think outside of the box. Even take some calculated risks by putting out proposals to fill a gap in service. And if you want f/t work, you can’t go about it with a casual investment of time. This is your career you're talking about!
2. Build and maintain relationships. Again, it comes back to networking.
3. Be confident yet stay humble.
4. Give gratitude.

Keith:
Can you tell us about a few of the success stories from people that have taken part in the program?

Me:
Absolutely! I have a few which are great examples of success gained from proactive participation in job search.

I encounter this first type of story all the time! This one’s about a younger client, whose job history was working in a couple of entry-level customer service jobs. After being laid off, he did some career exploration and decided to enter p/t studies to be a computer programmer and web designer. However, he still needed a job, so initially explained to our job search group that he was going to “settle” and take a survival job pumping gas. (Not exactly in alignment...wouldn't you agree?) Well, after learning how to plan and prepare, he instead realized he was not focused and on path, so he got a job selling computers at a large national computer company, as a stepping stone job. He was thrilled to be moving in the right direction by being in a relevant environment.

The second story is: I had a fellow in a job search workshop where we were discussing the importance of followup. He had never heard of it before but thought it was a fantastic idea. He mentioned it was too bad he hadn’t heard of it earlier when he applied for a dream position. I suggested he still followup. He said, Well you don’t understand. That was a month ago!” I said, “you can still followup… what have you got to lose?” So he did. Afterwards, he told me what happened. Apparently the employer had kept his resume on top of the pile and waited for him to followup. He didn’t contact my client, because he said his policy is to never call people for interviews. He only interviews those who take initiative to followup and who meet the criteria. And luckily for my client, the person who was hired didn’t work out and they were just about to advertise again. Needless to say my client got his dream job!

A final story I can share is one about a job seeker who came from another country and culturally did not believe in the forwardness of information interviewing or accessing the hidden job market. However, after learning about it, she decided to give it a chance, and again, with planning and preparation, and practice with the group, she made a call for an information interview with a company she was extremely interested in. She was so excited when she was granted an appt.! But it gets better than that! Well….after the appt. she came back and shared with the group, that the company was soooo impressed with her initiative and ambition, that they actually decided to CREATE a position for her and hired her on the spot! She couldn’t believe it!!

Annemarie:
How can listeners contact you?

Me:
By visiting my website at www.brendablackburn.com, following me on Twitter at: twitter.com/brenblackburn, OR come to my member page on CareerCommuniqueRadio.com. There, I’d be happy to serve as a JobAngel (that wonderful concept and movement Mark talked about recently on your show!)




email Brenda 604-309-0610